Worried about masculinity: from turrets and gargoyles to the state of men
From our UK edition
In 2023, the author Jon Ronson woke one Sunday in upstate New York, where he lives, to a string of alarming messages from his son. Joel, in his mid-twenties, had gone with some friends to a party in Connecticut that theyâd been told about by a guy on a dating app. âCastle party Saturday!â was the message that had lured them all in. â3pm to whenever. Dress code: Formal. Tell your friends.â When Joel and his pals arrived, they found what looked like a castle â turrets, gargoyles, a drawbridge â but no party. Instead there were a few bemused party-chasers like them, a bitey guard dog named Cerberus and a man in his mid-sixties, Chris Mark, the owner of the castle. âIâd like you all,â Mark announced, âto take part in my reality show.